We all like to have friends. Wouldn’t it be nice to realize, and come and accept that God wants to be our friend.
In John 15:15 Jesus says that He no longer calls them servants, but He calls them friends because friends know what their master is doing.
No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I heard from My Father I have made known to you.
Here is a prayer from David, who was a man after God’s own heart, where He was still known as Lord (Adonai) which means Master, and LORD, which is YHWH, which means I AM that I AM.
Prayer for Mercy, with Meditation on the Excellencies of the Lord
A Prayer of David.
86 Bow down Your ear, O Lord, hear me;
For I am poor and needy.
2 Preserve my life, for I am holy;
You are my God;
Save Your servant who trusts in You!
3 Be merciful to me, O Lord,
For I cry to You all day long.
4 Rejoice the soul of Your servant,
For to You, O Lord, I lift up my soul.
5 For You, Lord, are good, and ready to forgive,
And abundant in mercy to all those who call upon You.
6 Give ear, O Lord, to my prayer;
And attend to the voice of my supplications.
7 In the day of my trouble I will call upon You,
For You will answer me.
8 Among the gods there is none like You, O Lord;
Nor are there any works like Your works.
9 All nations whom You have made
Shall come and worship before You, O Lord,
And shall glorify Your name.
10 For You are great, and do wondrous things;
You alone are God.
11 Teach me Your way, O Lord;
I will walk in Your truth;
Unite my heart to fear Your name.
12 I will praise You, O Lord my God, with all my heart,
And I will glorify Your name forevermore.
13 For great is Your mercy toward me,
And You have delivered my soul from the depths of Sheol.
14 O God, the proud have risen against me,
And a mob of violent men have sought my life,
And have not set You before them.
15 But You, O Lord, are a God full of compassion, and gracious,
Longsuffering and abundant in mercy and truth.
16 Oh, turn to me, and have mercy on me!
Give Your strength to Your servant,
And save the son of Your maidservant.
17 Show me a sign for good,
That those who hate me may see it and be ashamed,
Because You, Lord, have helped me and comforted me.
The Lord spoke to Moses as a friend, and yet He is called Master, but He speaks to Moses a man speaks to his friend:
11 So the Lord spoke to Moses face to face, as a man speaks to his friend. And he would return to the camp, but his servant Joshua the son of Nun, a young man, did not depart from the tabernacle.
These days we take the word friend so casually, to mean just anyone we get along with is our friend, or all our facebook friends, and acquaintances but in Hebrew, friend, meant someone you were intimate like you were knit together, that is the kind of relationship that Moses had with God. Even then in the Old Testament, most of the people that were called friends turned out to be deceivers and liars, and unworthy, and I think in Proverbs it says someone is cursed for blessing their friend while rising in the early in the morning – Proverbs 27. But when you look at the way Jesus describes it, friend, was regarded highly by Jesus.
Jesus wants us to know what is in His heart and on His mind. He wants the fire of God to burn within us. He wants us to be passionate for Him. But He wants us to search out the intimate things of God.
The interesting difference between a friend and a master is that with a friend you really have to trust them, but with a master you do what they say because they are in a position of authority and you honor and respect them. You pretty much have no choice with a master, but with a friend you have a choice that you have to trust them.
Now don’t get me wrong, we should still regard God as the Sovereign God, and our Lord and Master, but there is a deeper relationship that He wants you to have. He wants you to get to know Him. I know I did a post on a similar subject before called Jesus the closest companion…but I think we need a refresher course. Imagine that the God who created the whole universe is not just your friend, but your best friend.
Imagine you ran a red light accidentally and the cop was your best friend, the cop would probably say something like, “Ok, bud, this was wrong, but if I catch you next time, I’ll have to give you one.”
David had favor with Saul for the sake of Jonathan.
Now to put things into proper perspective, God is not just our best friend, but He is our king, and our ruler, and the principle authority figure in our lives. But He wants us to know Him as our loving Heavenly Father first, but He is also very Holy and He cannot be around sin. Sin keeps Him away from us. Let’s take example lying. Wouldn’t you be mad if someone lied to you? Wouldn’t you be mad at your children if they didn’t do anything you said and were running a havoc around the house? Even if you are married if your wife lied to you or she lusted after another man or women if your husband lied to you and lusted after another man, wouldn’t you be upset. Some marriages people can’t forgive after adultery because they’ve been so hurt, God is the same way. He doesn’t want you lying to Him or anyone else either, and since the Holy Spirit lives inside of you, He doesn’t want you abusing your body. He doesn’t want you speaking bad things about His friends. He wants you to respect and to honor Him as King. That’s why you should respect and honor and fear Him not because you think He’s going to destroy you or send you to hell – but out of love of the heart. God looks at intent of the heart. He looks at motive.
The Bible says “work out your own salvation with fear and trembling”
It also says in Ephesians 1:
13 In Him you also trusted, after you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation; in whom also, having believed, you were sealed with the Holy Spirit of promise, 14 who is the guarantee of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased possession, to the praise of His glory.
This verse is conditional to the promise that you trusted in God. If you don’t trust God as your friend that He really doesn’t want to hurt you. That He really doesn’t want you to think that He doesn’t care for you, but because He disciplines or chastens you it is for your benefit. It is so that He is trying to teach you something. God is always talking, I mean always – everywhere. Are we really listening to Him?
I’ve had to learn this lesson about trusting God has my friend first instead of one who wants to discipline me. If your friend tells you, “Hey can you do me a favor?” And your parents command you to do chores, who are you going to want to obey- your friend or your parents? It may be the same exact thing. I guess it depends on your relationship with Him…sometimes He’s your parent and sometimes He’s your friend, but sometimes He’s both. He likes to play Good Cop and Bad Cop at the same time, but there’s nothing bad about Him, but it is to get you to admit and confess what you did was wrong and take responsibility for it.