Christianity is not about religion, but it is a relationship with a Person, who is Jesus Christ, and that is the basis and foundation of Christianity. The Pharisees were religious people and they were considered enemies of Jesus, but so many Christians are becoming religious in their walk of faith.
Here are some signs to see if you fall in to that category:
1. You feel like you must read the Bible everyday to earn points with God- There is distinction between reading the Word to get a rhema, and to get an insight, but to feel like it’s like an obligation or something that you do to put a checkmark on your to do list, then you know you are getting into muddy waters.
2. You pray because you feel like you are forced to pray and that the desire to communicate doesn’t come from your heart: This is another to do thing on your checklist. Jesus warned of not doing vain repetitions as heathen do, but he actually showed us how to pray. Praying without ceasing actually means to be in constant communication with God and to have your minds continually set upon Him. It doesn’t necessarily always mean interceding for others or making requests or supplications. Yes it is good to pray in the Spirit, but even Jesus had conversations with God that we know nothing about because He was in constant communion and fellowship with Him. The Father never left the Son up until the point where He was crucified.
3. You feel like God cannot interrupt your plans and the way you decide to worship and pursue Him – You have those set songs on your youtube, or cd player, or music device, and unless you listen to those specific songs in that specific order you feel like you are not going to experience God.
4. You judge others and are very critical of people that don’t have as a high a standard then you do – You are in danger of becoming self-righteous if you hold yourself in higher esteem than other people. The Bible says that we should hold people that have less honorable positions of higher esteem, and Jesus even said, that He came for the sick who are need of a physician, but not those that are well.
5. You become unteachable – You are so set in your doctrines, and whenever someone points out something that may be a different angle, you say, “No, no, it can’t be this way”, and that the doctrines you are following are the only right way. Paul warned against divisions and factions and separations in the Church. There is a distinction to be made between apostasy, (the falling away of the Church), and denominationalism. The problem is that we have been sidetracked by so many different kinds of dispensations all of which bear fruit, that we can’t tell the difference between good fruit and bad fruit and so we are easily deceived, but if Christ is preached in according to the full incorruptibility of the Truth of the Gospel then the fruit will be evident of itself. I was asking the Holy Spirit about this, that how come there are so many divisions of dispensation, and one Holy Spirit? Some people say that Law is the only way, and some people say that Grace is the only way. We know that the Blood of Jesus is the primary way, so I was asking Him about it and I came to the parable of the Wheat and the Tares, that there was some wheat sown in the ground, and some tares. The parable says if you have good wheat and bad tares, you let them grow up together until harvest time, and then the angels will take up what is bad and cast it into the fire. There may be different doctrines, but the ones that bear fruit will reveal the characteristic and nature of God. It has to go by primarily what Jesus said, and secondary by what anyone else said because Jesus is the primary authority on the matter even though the whole Bible is in the inspiration of God, and no Scripture is of private interpretation. The Bible also says that the Bereans were more noble than the Thessalonians because they searched out everything in the Scriptures to see if it was Truth bearing.
6. You look at people that are not Christians or those who have fallen away as not worthy to be loved because of their sin. – This is a very dangerous way of thinking and can really grieve the Holy Spirit. When Whitney Houston passed away some people were gossipping about the problems at the end of her life, but one very wise person pointed out that it doesn’t matter what happens at the end of a person’s life, and there are lessons to be learned, but each person is to be appreciated. This is very important because the same way which you judge you will be judged, and God had mercy on you when you were a sinner so why shouldn’t you have mercy on sinners when they are sinners, because we are all sinners without the Blood of Christ.
7. You have become so detached from the world that you become heartless to the things going around- This is based on selfishness too, but the heart of it is religiousness. Because you want to be separated, and set apart for the things of God you make yourself numb to all that’s going on around you because you don’t want to have anything to do with the world, and the people of the world. You don’t want to take part in the world’s sins. Jesus wasn’t like that – He ate with the outcasts and the sinners, and He was called to bring sinners to repentance. Sinners are supposed to turn their lives around and make change. Now if a righteous person doesn’t repent and turns back into sinning there is judgment for him as well.
8. You become all knowledge with no heart – This can be a very dangerous place to be in, especially for people that have been in ministry a long time, or people that have read their Bible so much, that they think that it can’t hold anything new for them. With this kind of knowledge the Bible says you become puffed up and in sorts conceited. You think you know everything and have no need for God and His Word. You think that because you have studied everything that the Holy Spirit can’t give you fresh new insight. You come to the point where you know all about Jesus, but don’t know Jesus, you don’t have an intimate walk with Him. This is what is meant by Matthew 7:23- the “I never knew you” passage.
9. You become ritualistic- This means everything has a set pattern. While it’s good to have structure, order, and discipline, we can get to the point where we put God in a box and God is not in a box. It takes time to figure out how God operates and to listen to Him.
10. You cannot tell the difference between conviction and condemnation – A person who is walking closely with the Holy Spirit will be able to discern the difference between conviction and condemnation. According Romans 8:1 there is no condemnation in Christ Jesus for those who do not walk after the dictates of the flesh, but are led by the Spirit. (paraphrase) And according to James 3:1 -NOT MANY [of you] should become teachers ( self-constituted censors and reprovers of others), my brethren, for you know that we [teachers] will be judged by a higher standard and with greater severity [than other people; thus we assume the greater accountability and the more condemnation]. So fellow blog evangelizers make sure you have strong footing in your relationship with the Lord and not to judge anyone or you will be judged in the same respect. This is when you are becoming to legalistic when you are following God’s word and when you strictly adhere to God’s law and beat yourself up for every mistake you make and don’t allow room for mistakes or error.
11. There is no transformation in your life – You may know everything, but since you became a Christian, your life doesn’t bear fruit, and you have the same testimony you had ten years ago and your walk is not growing. People can’t tell the difference between you and an unbeliever. They may think you are just sweet, nice, or a good person, but they don’t see the light. This may be especially true with your family. Your family may see you as the same person you were several years before and you may not have changed at all.
If any of these things is true here’s a prayer for you-
Forgive me for becoming too religious and not seeking a true and intimate relationship with You. I may not know how to do it and I may be caught up in my ways, that I don’t know how to change. I can’t do it without You and I claim Your Blood to wash over my life and give me a fresh start and new direction. You take over my life and I surrender to You this moment forward. Let Your Spirit operate in me and dwell inside me and show the power of a transformed heart. I admit that I am not perfect and that I am still learning, but help me to not always be learning but never come to the knowledge of truth. Holy Spirit help me walk the Christian life and call me into my purpose and destiny and help me not to become lukewarm but to become hot in love with God. Renew my heart and renew my spirit and take control from this moment forward. I turn my life over to you.
In Jesus Name I pray,